Moses Austin to Emily Austin, 06-20-1812
Summary: Moses Austin to Emily Austin, June 20, 1812.
Durham Hall,
My Dear Emily,
I am now bringing you in debt to me in the letter writing.—this
makes three I have written you, but I have such a pleasure in thus
holding a communication with my only Daughter, that if I were to
write twenty, without an Answer, I would write with the same
pleasure again, your Dear Mother's last letter is Dated in
Philadelphia, she says Emily is so much engaged in examining the strange
things of the Great City, that she cannot write at this time at all—
all is well you are doing just as you should do, now is the time to
examine well the things of nature and art, every thing you see will
teach you the duty and obligation we are under to our god and
society—it will prove to you how much man is capable of doing, when
his mind is properly improved, it proves to you the great and
unbounded Works of Nature, its the strongest proof that all things in
this life are under an all wise Creator, who has ordered all things
to answer his great intentions, no place exhibits man in a more
striking point of View, then in a large City—each day calls his attention
to some act of Duty towards his fellow men and proves his good or
bad inclination towards his suffering neighbour. One of the greatest
duties enjoined on man is to do as he would be done by, give unto
others what he expects others will give unto him, the rule strictly &
frankly adheared to, will always produce friends and admirers in
every country and among every Nation, it also produces an internal
Sattisfaction which nothing can take from you—let me recommend
the rule of conduct to you my Emily—its a foundation on which you
may build with safety, and happiness will be the sure consequence,
the pillars of a female character are Truth and Virtue, with a modest
deportment to all but especially towards her inferiors—let your
Deportment always be courteous to such whose situation in life has
rendered them unequal in, information or personal acquirements—
such, if persons of Common feeling have mortifications in abundance
without receiving them from those that have the happy capacity to
please and enjoy the works of nature and art—therefore always think
that you are only doing your Duty when you make all such persons
easy and satisfied in your Company—bear in mind that if you have
a talent inferior [Superior] to an Other that its your duty to
exercise it with that reserve that will give Offence to no person, however
low their situation and condition in life, for altho. you have now a
Father that takes great pleasure in labouring that you may enjoy
the advantages, yet the time will come when that Father will cease
Your Mother mentioned that your stay in Philadelphia would be short, that you return again to New York with Miss Hall to spend an Other quarter under her tuition. I am satisfied that my Emily should lay up a store of information, its Riches that cannot be taken from her, and should dame fortune turn her heel against you she cannot touch your store of Information It is a treasure no reverse of situation can deprive you of—therefore drink deep at the fountain of knowledge. It prepares you to discharge the duties of a child, a friend and wife
Accept my Dear Emily of the warm and affectionate esteem of your Father and be assured that nothing can give him so much satisfaction as to see his child return to his fond embrace—
Moses Austin [Rubric]